Heartbreaking and terrifying.
âAn amendment to the Schools Bill is being discussed in Parliament tomorrow,â read the post on an online forum run by the Bayswater Support Group, which describes itself as the UKâs only support organisation run by and for parents of trans children and young people.
âIf passed it will allow greater transparency about what is being taught in schools. We have been contacted for a short piece of evidence,â the mother said. âDoes anyone have the experience of their autistic child identifying as trans following learning about it at school? Ideally a situation where the school went onto transition the child.â
The following day, on 30 June 2022, during a parliamentary debate about relationships, sex and health education (RSHE), the Conservative MP Miriam Cates argued that learning about trans identities was damaging to children.
âOne parent of a 15-year-old with a diagnosis of Aspergerâs syndrome said she discovered that without her knowledge, her [childâs] school had started the process of socially transitioning her child, and has continued to do so despite the motherâs objections,â said Cates, who is standing again for her seat Penistone and Stockbridge, in South Yorkshire, in the upcoming election.
The story Cates told the House of Commons closely mirrored the request posted on Bayswaterâs private channel on Discord, an online message board. She even named the group during the debate, saying it had reported âa surgeâ of parents contacting Bayswater after their children learned about trans people at school.
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Bayswaterâs public concern about childrenâs safety strikes a marked contrast to posts on its Discord channel, where parents wrote of being reported to social services over ârestrainingâ their child and called a shelter for LGBTQ+ abuse survivors âa church for the gender faithfulâ. A post on the forum recommended blocking childrenâs access to the website for Childline, the NSPCCâs counselling service.