The posts seen by TBIJ show Bayswater parents discussing how their treatment of their trans children has led to them being reported to social services.
One posted that a school counsellor made a referral because âmy [child] is fearful living in our home, we have refused to buy [them] certain (boys) clothes and we restrained [them]â. A subsequent post noted the child was ânot concerned that Mum and Dad have been referred to social servicesâ.
Members are aware that some of their behaviour is considered abuse. One user posted a link to an article about anti-LGBTQ+ domestic abuse, with the caption: âExamples include monitoring interaction with friends. Imagine it also includes refusal to affirm.â
Another parent sarcastically responded âYes, we are abusive!â, with the original commenter retorting: âOne day, they may thank us for that âabuseââ.
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Many Bayswater parents restrict their childrenâs internet access. âI knew the Internet was a major factor [in my childâs gender identity] so I (famously) drowned [their] iPhone in a jug of salty sugar water whilst [they were] in the shower one day,â posted one parent.
A suggested website blocklist on the forum includes LGBTQ+ charities like Mermaids and Stonewall, websites that sell binders, and even Childline, the NSPCCâs counselling service.
Trans rights
âOne day they may thank us for that âabuseââ: Inside the Bayswater Support Group
in The Bureau of Investigative JournalismThe parents group at the centre of a rollback of trans rights
in The Bureau of Investigative JournalismHeartbreaking and terrifying.
âAn amendment to the Schools Bill is being discussed in Parliament tomorrow,â read the post on an online forum run by the Bayswater Support Group, which describes itself as the UKâs only support organisation run by and for parents of trans children and young people.
âIf passed it will allow greater transparency about what is being taught in schools. We have been contacted for a short piece of evidence,â the mother said. âDoes anyone have the experience of their autistic child identifying as trans following learning about it at school? Ideally a situation where the school went onto transition the child.â
The following day, on 30 June 2022, during a parliamentary debate about relationships, sex and health education (RSHE), the Conservative MP Miriam Cates argued that learning about trans identities was damaging to children.
âOne parent of a 15-year-old with a diagnosis of Aspergerâs syndrome said she discovered that without her knowledge, her [childâs] school had started the process of socially transitioning her child, and has continued to do so despite the motherâs objections,â said Cates, who is standing again for her seat Penistone and Stockbridge, in South Yorkshire, in the upcoming election.
The story Cates told the House of Commons closely mirrored the request posted on Bayswaterâs private channel on Discord, an online message board. She even named the group during the debate, saying it had reported âa surgeâ of parents contacting Bayswater after their children learned about trans people at school.
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Bayswaterâs public concern about childrenâs safety strikes a marked contrast to posts on its Discord channel, where parents wrote of being reported to social services over ârestrainingâ their child and called a shelter for LGBTQ+ abuse survivors âa church for the gender faithfulâ. A post on the forum recommended blocking childrenâs access to the website for Childline, the NSPCCâs counselling service.
LGBTIQ+ communities and the anti-rights pushback: 5 things to know
for UN WomenTo me, the lynchpin that enables the other problems listed here is that "LGBTIQ+ rights are [being] wedged into existing âculture-warâ narratives":
Media and political campaigns have positioned the rights of LGBTIQ+ people as negotiable and debatable. Some try to frame the human rights of transgender people as being at odds with womenâs rights, even asserting that trans women do not face gender-based discrimination or that they pose a threat to the rights, spaces, and safety of cisgender women.
While they vary by cultural context, these campaigns often portray the push for LGBTIQ+ peopleâs rights as merely a generational dispute, part of a so-called âculture warâ, or in some cases an imperialist agenda.âŻ
Many such narratives position trans and non-binary gender identities as new or Western concepts, ignoring the rich history of diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, gender expressions, and sex characteristics across cultures and within the global South in particular.
Falsely portraying the rights of LGBTIQ+ people, and particularly of trans people, as competing with womenâs rights only widens divisions in the broader gender equality movement. This has given anti-rights actors space to advance rollbacks on sexual and reproductive health and rights, comprehensive sexuality education, and other critical issues.
Lynn Conway, microchip pioneer and trans rights advocate, dies at 86
in The Washington PostIn part, Ms. Conway acknowledged, she had avoided the spotlight intentionally, living in âstealth modeâ for fear that her gender identity would wreck her career. It had already cost her her job once, when she was fired from IBM in 1968 after confiding to managers that she was planning to undergo gender-confirmation surgery, a then-novel procedure that she had to travel to Mexico to receive.
âIn many jurisdictions, I could have been arrested and charged as a sex offender â or, worse yet, institutionalized and forced to undergo electroshock therapy in a mental hospital,â she wrote in a 2013 essay for HuffPost.
âEvading those fates, I completed my transition and began building a career in a secret new identity, starting at the bottom of the ladder as a contract programmer. Even then, any âoutingâ could have led to media exposure, and Iâd have become unemployable, out on the streets for good.â
âI covered my past for over 30 years,â she added, âalways looking over my shoulder, as if a foreign spy in my own country.â
By 2000, she had decided to begin telling her story â including discussing her early research contributions at IBM, which had been lost to history because they were credited under her long-discarded birth name. She started speaking to reporters, including for a nearly 8,000-word cover story in the Los Angeles Times Magazine, and created a personal website where she aimed to offer âinformation, encouragement and hopeâ to others who had transitioned or were in the process of doing so.
Bogus Doctors Group Pushed By Elon Musk, Fox News Against Trans Care
On Friday, numerous conservative accounts and news sources promoted headlines that the "American College of Pediatricians" had issued a statement against transgender care. A video accompanied the announcement featuring Dr. Jill Simons, who, wearing a white lab coat, states that there must be an end to "social affirmation, puberty blockers, and cross-sex hormones" for transgender youth. Despite the official-looking attire and name, the organization's name serves to mislead observers into thinking they are the much larger American Academy of Pediatrics, which represents tens of thousands of pediatricians. In reality, the ACP is a hyper-conservative Christian group of doctors created in 2002 to oppose gay parenting.
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The American College of Pediatricians has been hugely influential in the promotion of anti-trans policy in the United States, relying in part to its misleading name. Members of the organization testify in state houses and courtrooms across the United States, misleading legislators into thinking they are the much larger American Academy of Pediatrics, the professional society that represents 67,000 pediatricians in the United States.
Trans Youth in the UK
for GenderGPIn 2015, when I first started learning about the health and well-being of trans people, I knew very little. I went on a journey of discovery, and what I discovered wasnât good. I was shocked, appalled, and disgusted by what I was reading, hearing, and later, experiencing. Trans people â including youth â in the UK were being harassed, bullied, victimised, shunned, picked on, and discriminated against. That was by people working in my profession â healthcare workers, nurses, doctors, and psychologists â who had formed an unhealthy relationship with these patients and this significant patient group.
In 2016, the Women and Equalities Commission found, and I quote, âThe NHS is letting down trans people, with too much evidence of an approach that can be said to be discriminatory and in breach of the Equality Act.â
Back then, it was so bad I assumed that once we recognised the real issues that were present that things could and would start to get better. But they havenât.
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Itâs confounding to see individuals who have historically fought for equal rights, including people of colour, individuals from diverse ethnic backgrounds, and women, now participating in denying trans people their rights to recognition, acceptance, and healthcare.
But the final blow came when the Secretary of State for Health and Social Care and the Minister for Health, acting jointly, made an emergency order to start on June 3, 2024 to restrict the prescribing and supply of puberty blockers to under 18s. The order was made to âavoid serious danger to healthâ.
So, while experts across the world publish evidence-based guidelines to make puberty blockers and gender-affirming hormones more accessible to trans youth, the UK government ignores medics and imposes bans. This will not avoid serious danger to health, it will cause serious danger to health, and it will cause death.
Defining sex â why itâs not as simple as you might think
in North West BylinesIt has been clear for some time that this general election, when it came, would see Conservative politicians attempt to whip up a storm around sex and gender. Targeting poorly understood minorities is standard play for the party when itâs in trouble, and lately it has been drawing heavily on the tactics of the US evangelical right, which has found transphobia a useful tool through which to start radicalising people. Kemi Badenochâs latest move, however, isnât just transphobic â itâs unworkable.
Of course, the right has always hankered after the days when âmen were real men and women were real womenâ. Itâs not for nothing that Rishi Sunak chooses to pose on the exercise machines he rarely uses while Liz Truss prefers to sit beneath a tree in a walled garden wearing a dress that makes her look like something out of The Handmaidâs Tale. Faced with fictive claims about schools teaching there are 72 genders, and other such nonsense, one can understand why the average person might feel a bit confused and might long for the simplicity of the past. But sex was never simple. It just looks that way through a veil of ignorance â and when laws are based on ignorance, they donât work.
NHS England to tell some transgender children to medically detransition or face safeguarding referrals
in QueerAFTL;DR: QueerAF has confirmed that leaked guidance seen by the Good Law Project is in use by NHS England. It reveals the 6000+ children currently on the waiting list for the new Children And Young Peopleâs Gender Service are being invited to have their mental health assessed. At these assessments children and their families will be advised to stop gender-affirming treatments, and that if they continue without âappropriate careâ they could face safeguarding referrals. It could result in young people being forced to medically detransition.
Texas GOP platform calls for ban on same-sex parenting because being gay is âabnormalâ
in LGBTQ NationThis is straight out of the Project 2025 template.
A completed draft Texas Republican Party platform refers to homosexuality as âan abnormal lifestyle choice,â gender-affirming care as âchild abuse,â and Drag Queen Story Hour as âpredatory sexual behavior.â The platform has been voted on by state party delegates and will be formally adopted on Wednesday after a final vote count.
The list of state party priorities calls for an end to legal same-sex marriages, same-sex parenting, all LGBTQ+ anti-discrimination laws, all transgender rights â including gender-affirming care for children and adults â a ban on LGBTQ+ content in schools and libraries, the defunding of all diversity-equity-inclusion (DEI) initiatives, and legal protections for anyone who discriminates against queer people based on âreligious or moral beliefs.â
Furthermore, the Texas GOP platform calls for a complete end to all of the following: pornography, federal welfare programs, minimum wage laws, mandatory sick or family leave policies, net neutrality, removal of Confederate monuments, pro-immigrant sanctuary cities, public education of undocumented children, no-fault divorce, non-abstinence sex education, abortion, birthright citizenship, professorial tenure in colleges and universities, cannabis legalization, anti-climate change legislation, contact tracing for the tracking of communicable diseases, federal regulations ensuring safe farm food production, and U.S. participation in the United Nations and North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO).
Anti-LGBTQ+ Policies and Rhetoric Are Harming LGBTQ+ Lives
for Data for ProgressThis year alone, nearly 500 anti-LGBTQ+ bills have been introduced in state legislatures nationwide. Last year, more than 75 anti-LGBTQ+ bills were signed into law, prompting the Human Rights Campaign, the nation's largest LGBTQ+ civil rights organization, to declare a state of emergency for LGBTQ+ people in the United States.
Previous Data for Progress polling of the LGBTQ+ community has found that many LGBTQ+ Americans feel unsafe in their communities and that a majority of transgender adults report a low sense of belonging in U.S. society, while less than half feel comfortable expressing themselves in their local community.
In this new report, Data for Progress surveyed 873 LGBTQ+ adults, including an oversample of transgender adults, nationally using web panel respondents. The findings emphasize the negative impacts of recent anti-LGBTQ+ policies and rhetoric on LGBTQ+ peopleâs lives, including a worse quality of life and mental health, experiences of discrimination and harassment, and difficulties accessing health care. Additionally, the findings point to the importance of having access to LGBTQ+ representation in media and LGBTQ+-affirming online spaces and resources, particularly for young people.