A while ago my online chum Miriam, whom I have officially dubbed The Sunniest Girl on the Internetâ„¢ (because she is), posted this:
my cohort of trans girls, the girls who transitioned about a year before or after i did, give or take, all seem to be looking, and i dont mean this disparagingly at all, so profoundly normal. just regular women. half of them look a lot like the women i grew up around, my mother's friends, church ladies, teachers. absolutely love to see it.
This is one of the least obvious and most true observations I've ever come across.