Explainer

Return to Self: A gender affirmation learning resource

for The University of Melbourne  

This is a really useful explainer for those people in your life who are perplexed and struggling:

Return to Self is a 5-part video and podcast series, exploring gender affirmation through the experiences and insights of three trans people.

Learn what this means for each of us as we create an environment where trans and gender diverse people can participate, contribute, and thrive.

Does everyone actually hate you, or is it Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria?

in Cosmopolitan  

Glorious freedom and long, sunny days stretching out ahead. For most, the end of summer term used to signify nothing but a high point in the year, but for Amy Cocksedge, now 24, thinking back to the school holidays conjures up the beginning of an agonising emotional spiral. Something that later carried through to her university days, too.

If messages from friends grew quieter – something that tends to accompany the natural ebb and flow of a busy break – a sensation would wrap itself around Amy's body. Chest pains. Racing thoughts. Hot tears. Every day without a text "would feel like a direct, personal attack," she explains. For Amy, any ambiguity would see her leap to a devastating conclusion: that everyone secretly hates her. Tormenting thoughts of being disliked, or having failed in some way, would override everything.