Karla Jay remembers joining the second night of street protests during the 1969 Stonewall uprising in New York City. For her, and for so many other LGBTQ+ people, something had shifted: People were angry. They didnât want things to go back to normal â because normal meant police raids. Normal meant living underground. It meant hiding who they were at their jobs and from their families. They wanted a radical change.
Radical change meant organizing. Jay joined a meeting with the Gay Liberation Front, which would become the incubator for the modern LGBTQ+ political movement and proliferate in chapters across the country. At those meetings, she remembers discussing what freedom could look like. Holding hands with a lover while walking down the street, without fear of getting beaten up, one person said. Another said theyâd like to get married. At the time, those dreams seemed impossible.
Jay, now 78, is worried that history will repeat itself. Sheâs worried that LGBTQ+ people will be put in the dark again by the draconian policies of a second Trump administration.
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âWe have forgotten that the laws are written to protect property and not to protect people. Theyâre written to protect White men and their property, and historically, women and children were their property,â she said. âTo expect justice from people who write laws to protect themselves has been a fundamental error of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans community.â
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From Stonewall to now: LGBTQ+ elders on navigating fear in dark times
in The 19thHospitals that paused youth gender-affirming care continued controversial intersex surgeries, group says
in The 19thIntersex advocates say that they have been shut out of the conversations about gender and health in the United States and that the January 28 executive order has far-reaching consequences for intersex kids, not just because it allows dangerous surgeries to continue.
âNone of the EOs mention intersex people specifically â they are systematically scrubbing mentions of intersex people from government websites,â the intersex rights group interACT wrote in an email to community members.
Several hospitals and doctors have complied with Trumpâs order, announcing in recent weeks that they have halted gender-affirming care, though some have resumed care based on ongoing litigation. In some cases, those same health centers that have stopped gender-affirming care have also largely continued to perform controversial sex-altering operations in the form of intersex pediatric surgeries, according to interACT.
Intersex advocates say that juxtaposition lays bare the hypocrisy of the order and those following it. Itâs been âstrikingâ to see those same health providers continue non-consensual intersex surgeries, said Sylvan Fraser Anthony, legal and policy director for interACT.
âHospitals have been so reluctant â flat out refusing or taking years before issuing some partial policy about whether theyâre going to be changing practices related to these non-consensual surgeries on intersex children,â Anthony said. âTheyâve taken years, if not decades, to review those [policies] and most have not been responsive at all to calls to review and update their standards and their practices for intersex children to respect their bodily autonomy. Whereas theyâre responding within a matter of days and weeks to this executive order when no one is making them â rushing to make policy moves that harm trans patients.â
What Stops Late Bloomers from Knowing
Utterly brilliant What she said:
A question that tormented me when I first discovered Iâm trans was why I didnât realize it until I was 45 years old. From what I see on Reddit, that question torments many late bloomers who donât figure this out until well into adulthood. The pop-culture narrative says that trans people are supposed to have always known, right?
Well, I didnât, and yet I was also definitely trans.
The torment only increased as I reflected back over my life, discovering one sign after another of my feminine identity. Some of them quite blatant. Why didnât I know? Why didnât I realize? Was I just stupid? A clueless idiot, bumbling my way through life?
That explanation was not dismissed so easily: it aligned with many of the messages Iâd been given about myself over the years. Further, I often felt like a clueless, bumbling idiot because I just didnât understand how boys work or how to emulate what they were doing. So maybe that was the answer.
It took years, but ultimately I came to realize that I was asking the wrong question. I shouldnât have wondered why I didnât know sooner. Rather, I should have been asking âwhat stopped me from knowing sooner?â
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Everyone else gets to play âbe yourself,â while we play âfit in or dieâ. What we need is a disguise. A mask made of carefully-constructed persona that matches the expectations created by our gendered bodies. The better we build this disguise, the better we fit in, the less punishment we receive. The less danger of exile we face.
So, without even noticing that weâre doing it, we pull back from engaging with people. We observe more and do less, trying to figure out the unwritten rules. We over-think the heck out of every situation before we try anything, working out our best guess as to how weâre supposed to behave.
I Was In The Women's Restroom When A Man Came In And Called Out A Question That Left Me Nauseated
in HuffPostMy partner and I found a lovely city park with a picnic area and gazebo to eat breakfast in after camping on National Forest land nearby. After a mug of coffee, I visited the public restroom. I didnât expect a stranger to yell at me through the flimsy stall door.
âHello? Are you a male or female?â
I was the only person using the restroom â the kids who had been in there a minute ago had left. I felt this manâs eyes on my sneakers and blue hiking pants under the stall. I was scared this harassment could escalate if I didnât say something to diffuse the situation. I gulped and called back, âHello?â
âOh, youâre a female. My bad.â He sounded reassured by my quavering voice. I heard his footsteps leaving the room. My heart raced as I fumbled with toilet paper, fingers shaking. I felt nauseated.
My voice had immediately identified me as the âfemaleâ I didnât feel myself to be â and all it took was two syllables. But my âfemaleâ voice had also saved me from further harassment. Would that man have dragged me out of the stall if I sounded âlike a manâ or remained quiet? Would he have looked under the stall? Would he have tried to check what was between my legs while my pants were down? Did he have any idea how much of a violation these real and imagined threats were to me?
And why was a man even in the womenâs room, questioning me? Did a kidâs mother report me to her husband for looking too much like a man in the womenâs room? Perhaps they were alarmed that I, with my short hair, had been in the restroom with their young kids. I felt physically ill at the troubling thought that someone would assume I would do anything harmful to children. I hadnât said anything, made eye contact with anyone or done anything other than sit quietly in the stall in the room that matches my assigned sex at birth.
I felt bad for looking masculine to make myself more comfortable, because I didnât want to make anyone else uncomfortable. Some part of me longed to return to my habit of looking more like a woman, but I also felt sick from not feeling right in my body.
I can empathize with these strangers viewing me and my body as a threat because I have also viewed my body as a threat. I have been unhappy with the shape of my body, my appearance in the mirror and the tone of my voice. And to have that thrown back in my face in such a vulnerable moment â pants down, defenseless, forced by my bodyâs very personal needs to be in this gendered room â hit close to home.
Disney, Christianity and the erasure of transgender people
in Baptist News GlobalTwenty-five years ago, trans women (those transitioning from male to female) outnumbered trans men (transitioning from female to male) two to one. Today, those seeking hormonal treatment for gender dysphoria are trending younger and are primarily trans men.
Yet, Trumpâs first executive order was titled âDefending Women from Gender Ideology Extremism and Restoring Biological Truth to the Federal Government.â The text of the order repeatedly states its intent is to protect women from âmen (who) self-identify as women and gain access to intimate single-sex spaces and activities designed for women ⊠(which) attack women by depriving them of their dignity, safety and well-being.â
If the majority of those seeking treatment for gender dysphoria today are primarily trans men (females transitioning to males), then why do womenâs spaces need protecting? Nowhere in the executive order or in any of the various state legislative efforts claiming to protect women has there been any concern expressed for protecting menâs spaces from the trans men who will be entering them.
Thatâs because the language around protecting women is really about asserting dominance over the bodies of individuals classified as female at birth â whether they are cisgender or transgender. Itâs about keeping the female body pure, normalizing bodily oppression and perpetuating rape culture.
The language used is also rooted in racism.
There is a reason those who study the rise of Christian nationalism in America emphasize its connection with white supremacy. The language around protecting women from predatory men has an unsavory history in the United States. It isnât that long ago that Black men in America were lynched regularly, and far too often the reason given was to protect some white womanâs body.
Trump Makes Supporting Trans People Ineligible For Public Service Loan Forgiveness Via EO
in Erin in the MorningOn Friday, President Donald Trump signed an executive order drastically limiting public service workersâ ability to obtain student loan forgiveness. Under the Public Service Loan Forgiveness (PSLF) program, workers at government agencies and 501(c)(3) nonprofits are eligible for loan forgiveness after 10 years of service. But Trump's order threatens to strip that benefitâspecifically targeting employees at organizations that support transgender rights or diversity initiatives. If enforced, the order could have sweeping consequences, cutting off loan relief for workers at countless nonprofits, civil rights organizations, hospitals, and schools across the country.
âThe prior administration abused the PSLF Program through a waiver process, using taxpayer funds to pay off loans for employees still years away from the statutorily required number of payments. Moreover, instead of alleviating worker shortages in necessary occupations, the PSLF Program has misdirected tax dollars into activist organizations that not only fail to serve the public interest, but actually harm our national security and American values, sometimes through criminal means,â says the order.
Organizations that would be barred from the order include what the order calls âsubsidization of illegal activities, including illegal immigration, human smuggling, child trafficking, pervasive damage to public property, and disruption of the public order, which threaten the security and stability of the United States.â Further down in the order, this includes organizations that support âchild abuse, including the chemical and surgical castration or mutilation of children or the trafficking of children to so-called transgender sanctuary States for purposes of emancipation from their lawful parents, in violation of applicable lawâ as well as organizations that are âengaging in a pattern of aiding and abetting illegal discrimination.â
Both of these are common administration euphemisms for supporting transgender people and diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) initiatives.
The Tyranny of Public Opinion
Peter is co-host of the If Books Could Kill podcast, which I highly recommend.
The percentage of Republican men who believe that women should return to their traditional roles in society has jumped from 28 to 48%. Among Republican women, the increase is from 23 to 37%. This has happened in the span of two years. As alarming as this is, itâs important to ask yourself: what do you think happened here? Do you think that Republican voters, organically and of their own volition, drastically shifted their fundamental perceptions of womenâs role in society? Of course not. They are being influenced by messaging from conservative elites, who themselves are radicalizing on issues of race and gender.
This dynamic is often obvious. YouGov polling shows Republican support for higher tariffs at 51%, with just 5% supporting lower tariffs. A year ago those numbers were 38 and 20%, respectively. Again, what happened? Did they all read the same economics textbook? Or did they follow the lead of Donald Trump, who made higher tariffs a central campaign issue?
Democrats tend to miss this. When Kamala Harris lost, several prominent Democrats said the party had strayed too far from the public on trans issues. Gavin Newsom, speaking on his new podcast to his guest Charlie Kirk (Jesus Christ) repeated the talking point just this week. But just a few years ago the savvy political wisdom was that Republican anti-trans efforts had overstepped, alienating voters. Republicans, though, werenât cowed by public opinion. Rather than retreat, they went on the offensive, seeking to reshape the public debate. And they did, leveraging inflection points like womenâs sports to galvanize their base and push liberals into a defensive posture.
If youâre a political party, your goal is not just to know where voters stand, but to know how to move them. Instead, Democratic operatives seem content to reduce their platform to a focus-grouped ephemera, drifting whichever way the political winds blow it.
What Science Says About Transgender Identity and the Brain
in TransVitaeI don't know about this. Treating people with respect ought not depend on identifying some anatomical feature. Situating that feature in the brain does not make it any better.
For those who question the slogan âTrans Women are Women,â the science provides a compelling answer. Gender identity is deeply rooted in brain development, and transgender women have been shown to possess brain structures that align more closely with cisgender women than cisgender men. The term âwomanâ is not just about chromosomes or reproductive capacity; it is a social and neurological identity shaped by a complex interplay of biology, psychology, and lived experience.
When TERFs or gender-critical individuals ask, âWhat is a woman?â the most accurate response is, âA woman is someone who identifies and experiences themselves as a woman, and this identity is supported by both social and biological science. Brain studies show that transgender women have neurological patterns that differ from cisgender men and align more closely with cisgender women. To reduce womanhood to mere reproductive function ignores the complexity of human identity and the science behind gender.â
CA Gov Gavin Newsom "Completely Aligns" With Charlie Kirk On Trans Issues In Podcast
in Erin in the MorningThe conversation didnât stop there. Charlie Kirk quickly pivoted to other transgender issues, bringing up Vice President Kamala Harrisâ support for incarcerated transgender people. Newsom agreed that the Kamala is for they/them ads were politically damaging, calling them "devastating." When asked about transgender incarcerated people, Newsom responded, "This was even more challenging⊠because this is issues of people who are incarcerated getting taxpayer-funded gender reassignment⊠that is a 90/10 [issue]," referring to how he believes such policies poll. He also appeared frustrated that Harris "was in the video and expressed support."
At the close of the podcast, Charlie Kirk shifted the discussion to transgender healthcare, stating, "I encourage you to learn about the butchery that is happening under chemical castration in this state. The American people are overwhelmingly against it." Newsom responded, "Yeah. I think we have to be more sensitized to that."
Kirk continued, "Youth should be off limits, you might be right on deportations, I know Iâm right on this," to which Newsom simply acknowledged, "Yeah." Kirk then cited the Cass Reportâa widely criticized and legally discredited review used to justify bans on transgender healthcare in the UKâas evidence that gender-affirming care for youth should be prohibited. Newsom offered no pushback, replying, "Iâm not an expert on this, but I appreciate your broader [point]."
Newsomâs invitation and capitulation to Charlie Kirk on his podcast will alarm LGBTQ+ advocates. Kirk has a well-documented history of extremist rhetoric and hostility toward the LGBTQ+ community. In a 2023 video, he stated, âThese people are sick⊠I blame the decline of American men. Someone should have just âtook care of itâ the way we used to take care of things in the 1950s and 60s, but as you have testosterone rates going down and men acting like women, wellâŠââseemingly advocating for violence against transgender people. Kirk has also repeatedly used the slur "tr*nny" and has encouraged its normalization. He once called transgender people âa throbbing middle finger to god.â In the last election cycle, TPUSAâs PAC, which he leads, spent millions on anti-transgender ads, making his presence on Newsomâs platform all the more striking.
Moral panics and legal projects: echoes of Section 28 in United Kingdom transgender discourse and law reform
for University of BristolA grounding in the queer history of the legal system in the United Kingdom reveals striking parallels between the moral panic leading to the enactment of Section 28 of the Local Government Act 1988, and the current momentâs discourse surrounding the inclusion of transgender people in social spaces and their potential right to self-identification of gender in law. Through use of moral panic theory, this article examines and contextualizes the historical forces at play in the formation of laws around queer and trans lives in the UK, and in particular the instrumentalization of fears over the safety of children and cisgender women. The article also provides a practical example of the influence of the trans moral panic on law reform, by evaluating the debate surrounding the Gender Recognition Reform (Scotland) Bill 2022. It concludes that there is no âgender crisisâ in the UK, but there are powerful social forces at work to stoke a moral panic and, in doing so, stigmatize and alienate trans people in a similar manner to the stigmatization of homosexuality as an illegitimate way of life under Section 28.